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We often find ourselves nodding in agreement when someone says something we fundamentally disagree with, usually to maintain a semblance of harmony or to avoid conflict. This phenomenon, known as “tacit approval,” could be a significant obstacle in your path to personal and professional development.
What Is Tacit Approval?
Tacit approval is the act of remaining silent when you disagree with something being said or done. It may manifest as nodding your head during a meeting when you know that the person talking is incorrect, simply because you don’t want to create friction or because you fear the repercussions of speaking out.
The Snowball Effect
By remaining silent, you inadvertently support an idea or action that you think is wrong. When people see your apparent agreement, they are more likely to also agree, giving misguided ideas the green light. Your silence thus has ripple effects that can lead to poor decisions being made in both your personal and professional life.
The Excuse Factory
Many people attribute their lack of assertiveness to various excuses: the fear of getting fired, maintaining the mortgage, or other financial obligations. According to critics, these are not valid reasons. In today’s corporate world, getting fired for speaking your mind is increasingly rare, provided you aren’t engaging in any improper conduct.
The Global Perspective
Interestingly, this tendency for tacit approval isn’t universal. It’s often less prevalent in societies that value assertiveness and directness, such as Russia and Ukraine. In these cultures, people are more likely to speak out against something they believe is incorrect, showing a kind of resilience that seems to be eroding in others.
Online Validation
Frustration with tacit approval often finds an outlet online, especially on platforms like Reddit, where people complain that ‘things don’t work.’ These complaints are often criticized as merely excuses for not being assertive enough to make things work for oneself.
The Youth Angle
The argument becomes even more compelling when we see young people, as young as 13 to 18 years old, who manage to overcome societal norms to speak their minds and succeed. If they can do it, what’s stopping the older generation?
In summary, tacit approval might feel like the path of least resistance, but it is a dangerous road to tread. Your unwillingness to speak out is not just a personal limitation; it affects those around you and the decisions that get made. If you wish to be successful in any area of life, shedding the cloak of tacit approval is crucial. Don’t blame external factors for your silence; take responsibility, and you might be surprised at how things can turn around for you.
